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• “I can’t trust” vs “I don’t trust” vs “I don’t have trust that” 1
• __c__ factor 1
• "as" as "is" for people who don't want to confuse the map and the territory 1
• "behave" as a command to layer 2
• "But (what if) I'm right" 1
• "good" & "bad" 2
• “H3” & “NNTD” as specific protocols & meta-protocols 1
• "Hurt" considered harmful 1
• "I actually mean it this time" 1
• "I can't trust that X" phrasing 5
• "I don't know how to do this" doesn't mean you don't know how to do it 3
• "I don't trust X" nurtures wholeness, vs "part of me doesn't think X" 1
• "I just work here" 1
• "I'm glad he's taking care of X, so that I get to focus on Y 1
• "I" is referring to "this guy" 1
• "If you already knew where I was, we wouldn't be lost" 2
• "Life's not fair" is bullshit 1
• "may all beings be at ease"
• "nothing to do" meditation 6
• "stupid" as "not worth bothering to reason with, negotiate with, sensemaking with" 1
• "trustable 1
• "unnatural" is unnatural 2
• "you don't owe anyone anything" culture 1
• "you're wrong" is always a map-territory error 1
• (mis)Translating the Buddha 1
• "I can't trust that X" phrasing vs "I don't trust" 1
• we-space supergroup meta-protocol jam 1
• as far as I can tell and other co-epistemic frame tags 10
• Beeminder 1
• bzshzt happens in verbal feedback systems with shame or defensiveness or apology 1
• Christianity as meta-protocol 1
• co-consciousness principles 2
• coherence empathy outside therapeutic contexts 1
• collective blindspots naturally occur in groups 2
• commitment/choice is a confused way to relate to stances/mindsets 17
• compartmentalization has important implications for interpersonal trust 2
• David Deutsch ↔ McGilchrist's brain hemisphere model 2
• David Deutsch ↔ Meaningness 1
• Design Docs I haven't written yet 1
• Duncan Sabien's paradigm 1
• eutopia / actually-good sincere utopia 1
• everything makes sense meditation 2
• exaptation story 1
• extending trust vs trusting the other person over yourself 1
• faith in a romantic context 2
• February 24th, 2022 The Stoa session on NNTD 1
• Fractal Pomodoros as an approximation of fluid mode 1
• George Woodliff-Stanley's thesis 1
• God & abstraction 1
• honesty requires frame-matching 1
• how I avoid distractions on Twitter 7
• how I avoid distractions with email 2
• incentives are only a relevant unit of analysis from the outside 1
• Intend design question 1
• Intend book list 1
• Intend-related memes 1
• Jack Dorsey interview on Joe Rogan 1
• Jason Mraz as a teacher on emptiness 2
• just is sus 3
• left hemispheres aren't made for interfacing with other people 3
• list of common schemas learned in school 5
• Malcolm Ocean aesthetic 4
• Mark Lippmann's meditation protocol 5
• meta-protocol is a science of trust 3
• meta-rationality is worth distinguishing from rationality 2
• meta-team core reading 1
• meta-team initial public articulation 3
• meta-team puzzle 2
• meta-team roles 1
• my threads on twitter, as indexed by Riccardo Volpato mid2021 2
• NNTD pith instructions
• NNTD pith instructions discussion 2
• NNTD as a framework mostly takes for granted that people are trying to tell the truth; if not, you have a different kind of problem 1
• NNTD can help with he said she said dynamics 2
• NNTD case study 2
• NNTD for managers
• NNTD for parents 1
• NNTD has let me see how certain attempts towards trust-building will fail to build non-naive trust 3
• omniwin training game 15
• open question: how does one deal with needing someone else to change in order for the relationship to work? 1
• panic is probably for infants 2
• parallax examples 4
• partswork doesn't require reifying or naming parts 1
• PCT ↔ McGilchrist's brain hemisphere model 1
• PCT vs predictive processing 2
• post-blame apology 8
• projection often carries implications we don't immediately notice 1
• punishment can't steer 6
• punishment is goodharting waiting to happen 4
• self-trust comes from respecting distrust 6
• something is a great word 1
• spiral dynamics Coral 1
• Tim Ferriss Show 1
• towardsness & awayness motivation aren't symmetric 2
• trust-dancing is an element of all human interactions 4
• trust as being all self-trust based 1
• tweetstorms on nihilism & hunger 2
• Upstart "Commitments & Assumptions" 4
• we-space supergroup 1
• your experiences are real but don't in general imply what you think they imply 1
• {{embed 1
• @antediluvn 1
• @BecomingCritter 2
• @DefenderOfBasic 2
• @jack on Joe Rogan 1
• @Lauracsc_ 1
• @maybegray 1
• #blogpost pipeline 2
• #book: The Fearless Organization 2
• #tweetstorm about unnecessary goal components 1
• #tweetstorm on Meaningness & McGilchrist's brain hemisphere model 1
• ∆ 2
• <X can't be true because it would imply blameing someone for something they can't control> is silly—instead, just allow people to not be able to do everything 1
• > 1
• ~ everything is fertile fodder for learning/jazz - synergic exaptation 4
• ★ Redesigning Twitter 19
• ☸️1: view - understanding 1
• ☸️2: intention - thought 1
• ☸️3: speech 1
• ☸️4: action 1
• ☸️5: livelihood 1
• ☸️6: effort - enthusiasm 1
• ☸️6: enthusiasm 1
• ☸️7: mindfulness - attention 1
• ☸️8: concentration 1
• 100% co-response-ability 2
• 100% confidence + 100% humility 11
• 11: 1
• 12: 1
• 19-11-09 MalJe vncz - dream secret learning contexts 1
• 2 1
• 2×2×2s 2
• 2020: Free to Dance 3
• 2integrate 3
• 2tweet 324
• 3 1
• 3 steps to empowered dialogue 3
• 4Game 1
• 4P cognition 1
• A brief layer model of the mind 1
• a common confusion: "there's no way to satisfy this person's ask while staying in integrity" when what's actually so is "I __can't think of__ a way to satisfy this person's ask while staying in integrity" 1
• a general theory of seduction 1
• A Little Book on the Human Shadow 1
• a major momentum downer is putting balls into a slow court 1
• a secret is like a lie-shaped hole 1
• A Secular Age 1
• abstraction 5
• abstragmatics 1
• abundance 2
• acceptance isn't the same as acceptance 5
• Active differential learning 1
• Adam Jensen 1
• adaptive entropy 1
• addiction to compartmentalized thus unsustainable flow 2
• addition is an inappropriate operation to perform on a human being or a world or really any real system 3
• adhd 2
• adulthood 4
• adversarial metaphor design 2
• Adyashanti 1
• Aella 2
• After the Honeymoon 1
• agency 2
• agreements 1
• agriculture 1
• Agrippa Kellum 1
• AI risk 1
• aka 2
• Alan Kay 1
• Aleksi L 1
• Alexander Technique 3
• Alfie Kohn 3
• alien abductions as diaper change flashbacks 1
• alignment is a co-discovery process 1
• Aliveness & Vividness 1
• all of you, including your shadow, has access to your power 2
• all perception is in some sense projection 1
• all time fav tweets 1
• alliterative poetry 1
• allowing 4
• already always dancing 1
• already enlightened 1
• Already Free 1
• Alton Sun 2
• Amanda Askell 1
• ambition 2
• America 1
• An Everyone Culture 3
• An exercise for getting same-sided & post-compromise 3
• an original remix 2
• analogies between AI & people 1
• and these are compatible 1
• and_more 13
• Andrew Cohen 1
• Andrew Cutler 2
• Andrew Roberts 2
• Andrew Rose 2
• Andrew Schreiber 3
• Andy Ayrey 1
• Andy Matuschak 5
• Aneesh Mulye 1
• Angel Grant 1
• anger 2
• Anglish 2
• Anna Riedl 2
• Annihilatory panic 1
• Anthony Wilden 1
• anthropology 1
• anti-rivalry 1
• anti-self-trust propaganda 1
• anxiety 3
• any justification that doesn't ground out in "what I want" has bullshit somewhere 1
• any kind of "wrong" has to indicate "wrong for whom" and "by what values" 1
• API Token: Public Readonly
• apologize in the other person's frame; forgive in your own frame 7
• apology 15
• app for doing partswork or otherwise talking with yourself 1
• Applications of NNTD 1
• Arbinger Institute 1
• arguing over what happened 1
• Ari Delashmutt 1
• Aristotle 1
• art 1
• art is choosing what to breathe life into 2
• article 1
• as far as I can tell 12
• Asides
• Ask Culture 1
• assertional vs unforeclosing statements 5
• assuming we get there, what needed to happen along the way? 1
• astonishing opportunism & optionality - your sense of what the options for affects your sense of what's worth doing, to a dramatic automatic degree 1
• asymmetric containment 1
• asymmetric weapon 1
• at each moment in an interaction, there's an opportunity to turn towards 1
• Atheist Belief in Hell
• attachment 1
• attachment styles 2
• Attachment Theory 1
• attempting a synthesis of PCT & behaviorism 3
• attention 2
• attractors 1
• attribution art 1
• audio 1
• Audre Lorde 1
• author 3
• authority 1
• averagerianism 4
• Awakening from the Meaning Crisis 8
• awareness 1
• awayness 4
• axioms & logic of trust 5
• Baby Ocean The First 1
• BadDesign 2
• BadInternetRuinsRelationships 1
• Balaji Srinivasan 2
• barn-raising 17
• basic superorganism - autonomy training 2
• basic trust 1
• BATNA 1
• Bayes Theorem 1
• Beeminder 5
• Beer Game 5
• Behavior: The Control of Perception 8
• behaviorism 2
• being on the same side & being on truth's side 4
• Ben Aldern 1
• Ben Hoffman 4
• Ben Kuhn 2
• benchmark strategy 1
• Benjamin Carr 1
• Bessel van der Kolk 1
• betrayal 9
• better metaphor 2
• Better email 2
• better not to start; if you start better to finish 1
• between-session card 1
• beware trust-laundering 2
• Beyond Civilization 1
• Bio-Emotive 16
• biological evolution 1
• Bits
• black box 1
• blame 3
• blame is a confusion 3
• Blending 1
• blindspot 10
• blindspot feedback is hard (but possible!) 22
• blockchain-based evolutionary apps 1
• blog post 2
• blogpost 20
• blogpost showtime 3
• bluesky 3
• bodhisattva 2
• body tension 1
• Bohm Dialogue 2
• boids 1
• Book/Brain Talk 1
• Book/Controlling People 1
• Book/Discipline Equals Freedom 1
• Book/Fat Chance 1
• Book/Grokking Simplicity 1
• Book/Making Sense of Behavior 7
• Book/Passionate Marriage 1
• Book/Power-Under: Trauma and Non-Violence 1
• Book/Reinventing the Sacred 1
• Book/The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership 3
• Book/The Educated Mind 1
• Book/The Fabric of Reality 1
• Book/The Gift of Fear 1
• Book/What's Really Going On Here 1
• books I may write 3
• Books or essays that answer each others' questions 3
• Books/Cultural Literacy 2
• Books/Scale by Geoffrey West 11
• Books/The Art of Gathering 2
• bootstrapping eutopia 1
• both-and
• bouba kiki 1
• boundaries 3
• brahma-viharas 1
• brain hemispheres 16
• Brave New Work 1
• Breathe for a Minute ♫ 2
• Brian Toomey 1
• bridging subcultures that don't quite harmonize 1
• Brother Spirit aka Phap Linh 1
• Bruce Ecker 2
• Bryan Kam 2
• Buber 1
• Buddhism 2
• building trust out of distrust 5
• bully-into-kindness fallacy 2
• business 2
• but good though 1
• but I don't wanna 2
• but it's okay if — un-double-binders 3
• buy in 1
• bzshzt 1
• C S Lewis 1
• C. Thi Nguyen 1
• calc 1
• call the deer a horse 1
• Calvinism 1
• campus 1
• cancer 1
• canonical 1
• capgras delusion 3
• capitalism 1
• care attractor 2
• Care Cards 1
• case studies & stories of people in communities trying to figure shit out 1
• case study 2
• case study: loopy dialogue about therapy 1
• catch one's breath 1
• Categories, AI & Left Hemisphere 6
• Catherio 6
• causal confusion 1
• ccc 1
• Cedric Chin 1
• Cedric Reeves 1
• Celebrations, not rewards 1
• CFAR 1
• Change doesn't just happen 15
• channel 9 2
• Charlie Awbery 3
• Chesterton's Fence 1
• Chogyam Trungpa 1
• choice 26
• Choosing is Being 1
• Chris Orozco 1
• Chris Wray 1
• christian 1
• Christian de Quincy 1
• Christianity 7
• Christopher Alexander 1
• church 2
• Circling 8
• Civium 1
• class ladders 2
• Claude 3
• clicker training 1
• close your tabs 1
• co-consciousness 2
• co-criticality 4
• co-gnosis 1
• Co-Intelligence Institute 1
• co-learning 2
• co-watching 1
• co-what-now 3
• co-written book (edited anthology) - collections of essays/stories 4
• codependency 1
• coercion 20
• coercion is inefficient 3
• coercion wants to maintain scarcity for others; co-creation wants abundance for all 1
• Cognitive dissonance 1
• coherence 1
• Coherence Coaching 5
• coherence empathy 14
• Coherence Therapy 12
• Cointelligence R&D Lab Proposal 4
• collapse 1
• collected thoughts on exponentials
• collecting barn-raising resources 5
• Collecting others designs I like 2
• collecting stories of why moderates voted for Trump & how people lost trust in the Democratic party 1
• collection of views it might be worth stabilizing faith in 3
• collective PCT 2
• collective agency 4
• collective awakening 2
• collective blindspots 3
• collective consciousness 3
• collective intelligence 8
• collective perspective 1
• comic 1
• coming of age 1
• command 1
• comment 3
• comments by others
• commissioning a portrait or something 1
• commitment 25
• commitment contract 1
• common assent 1
• common construal 1
• common knowledge 4
• common-knowledge cascade 3
• commons 2
• community 4
• company 1
• Comparing Bio-Emotive and Focusing 2
• compartmentalization 2
• Compartmentalization 1
• compassion 1
• competition 1
• complaints are sacred: how we affirm our values 5
• complexity 6
• compromise 1
• compromise is not what everyone wants 5
• concept 1
• concrete visioning 1
• conflict and virtual reference levels 1
• conflict theory 2
• conformity 1
• confusions people have about commitment or choice 1
• Connor Turland 1
• Conor White-Sullivan 8
• conscious evolution 1
• consciousness is for handling exceptions 1
• consensus 1
• consequences 1
• constructivism 2
• context debt 1
• Context Meditation 3
• Contextual Eyes 1
• contradiction 6
• contributor license agreement 1
• control systems 5
• Convening an Ontario meta-protocol jam 2
• convergent meta-norms 1
• Conversation App Design ("slack but good") 9
• Conversation As Medium 7
• conversation styles (high-involvement, high-considerateness) 1
• Converting Moloch from Sith to Jedi 2
• convo w Xiq 1
• cooperation & defection aren't as obvious as they might seem (they depend on frame) 3
• core principles of the NNTD 3
• core thesis 1
• Core Transformation 1
• Corey Anton - "The Nothing That Is: Language, Thought, and Negation"** 2
• coronavirus resources 1
• corporation 1
• cosmic joke 1
• cosmos 1
• counter-entitlement 1
• counteractive 6
• counterfactuals 1
• counterfactuals well 1
• couples counselling etc 1
• courage 1
• courage and defensiveness 1
• courtship 2
• created 1
• creative love 1
• creative tension 2
• creativity 1
• creepy 1
• critical rationalists 2
• critique 2
• crypto 1
• crypto isn't about "trustless", it's about trustable systems (instead of people) 1
• crypto no-trust systems won't be enough 2
• Culadasa 1
• cult 4
• cult dynamics 1
• cult dynamics are one natural attractor in culture space 2
• cult dynamics are the default and happen from good intentions 3
• cultural differences that look like defecting 1
• cultural evolution 6
• cultural platform 1
• culture can be more therapeutic in general 1
• culture-crafting 2
• currency velocity 1
• curricula 1
• Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism 1
• cybernetics 1
• cynefin 1
• Dan Luu 1
• Daniel S 4
• Daniel Schmachtenberger 2
• Daniel Tabakman 2
• Daniel Thorson 3
• dark depth 1
• date 3
• David Allen 1
• David Bohm 1
• David Chapman 11
• David Deutsch 23
• David Friedman 1
• David Graeber 1
• David MacIver 3
• David Schnarch 1
• David Sloan Wilson 1
• David Yu 1
• day off 4
• DD: The Evolution of Culture 1
• death 5
• decentralized agreement 1
• decentralized organization 1
• decision-making 3
• Dee Hock 1
• deep design 1
• default mode network 3
• default person 1
• defensiveness & shame-apology as two sides of the same coin 1
• defensiveness = protectiveness 13
• degree of freedom 1
• deliberate "negative reinforcement" is punishment even if you don't call it that 10
• Deliberately Developmental Organization 1
• depression 1
• depth 1
• descriptions of political culture realignments 1
• descriptive approaches work better than prescriptive ones 1
• deserve is broken 3
• design bug 1
• Design Docs 7
• design portfolio
• design question 1
• design sense 3
• Designing a better browser\workflow for Twitter & more 11
• Designing a Convergence feature for Twitter
• Designing a Retract button for twitter
• Destructive Global Capitalism 3
• dharma 2
• Dharma Inquiry Questions 1
• dharma talking 1
• Dialectic 3
• dialogue 3
• dialogue between bull and china shop 1
• Diamond Approach 1
• Dick Schwartz 3
• difference is energy but you need to know how to organize it or it might just explode 1
• difference that makes a difference 1
• different bases for (eg app) design 1
• differentiation 8
• dignity 1
• Dimensions of Growth 6
• dimensions of the new culture 1
• Dimensions of Trust-Dancing 5
• disagreements come from different perspectives which come from different experiences 2
• Discomfortable 1
• disgust & postjudgment 1
• dissenting surrender (aka mexican restaurant) 1
• distinguish content from meta 1
• distrust 1
• distrust is real 1
• Divia Eden 2
• do 100 things 1
• do people naturally self-regulate how deep they're willing to go? 3
• do what you feel like doing 1
• do what you want, actions have consequences 1
• does it grow corn? 1
• doing community well 5
• doing difference differently 1
• doing math with book titles 1
• dominance & submission 2
• Don Hoffman 1
• don't aim for high-trust, don't try to have an open loving community 1
• don't crash into the tree 1
• don't give people extra problems 3
• don't go to university/college 1
• Don't Pay For Options You Don't Want 2
• Donald Schon 1
• DONE 141
• Donella Meadows 4
• dopamine 1
• double bind 12
• Double Crux 1
• double empathy gap 1
• double illusion of transparency 1
• double negatives are a vital part of speech 5
• double visa 1
• double-loop learning 2
• Doug Engelbart 2
• Doug Tataryn 2
• Douglas Harding 1
• downward spiral 1
• draft 1
• Dragon Dreaming 1
• drama 1
• drawing 1
• dream job 1
• dream mashups 23
• DSM fallacy 1
• dual to cancer 1
• Dunbar's number 1
• Duncan Sabien 10
• dynamic facilitation 1
• dynamical systems theory 1
• Dzogchen 3
• E-Prime 1
• E. Richard Sorenson 2
• each person has been betrayed in different ways, and their trust must thus be earned in different ways 1
• easter 1
• Echoism 1
• Eclectic Spacewalk 1
• education 4
• effect of explicitly claiming varies by context
• egalitarianism isn't as simple as it sounds 1
• ego 3
• ego boundary 2
• ego death 1
• egosyntonic 1
• egregore 1
• either-or 1
• electrofunk 1
• electronica 1
• elephant template 2
• Eli Finer 1
• Eli Tyre 1
• Eliezer Yudkowsky 5
• Elinor Ostrom 1
• Eliot Red 3
• embodied learning requires seeing the impacts of what you're doing 1
• Emerge podcast 1
• emergent organizing 1
• emoji
• emotional coherence 5
• emotional competence 1
• emotional flashback 4
• emotional reconsolidation 1
• emotional regulation 1
• emotions 2
• empathy gap 3
• emptiness 1
• Empty Logic
• enabling constraints 1
• enactivism 1
• Encanto 1
• Endeavors Grid 2
• energetic discharges 1
• enlightened selfishness 1
• enneagram 1
• Entering the Orthodox Church 2
• Entitativity 1
• Eric Chisholm 12
• Eric Normand 2
• Eric S Raymond 1
• Erik Torenberg 1
• Ethan Reeder 1
• ethics 3
• etymology 2
• Eugene Gendlin 2
• euphemistic judgment 2
• eutopia 3
• eutopia / actually-good serious utopia 1
• Eva de Hullu 3
• EvConch 2
• event 1
• every conversation is constantly co-creating its own culture 1
• everybody has been wronged, plenty of times, even though nobody ever did anything wrong 1
• everyone is always doing whatever makes the most sense to them 5
• Everyone is basically living in a dream mashup of their current external situation & old emotional meanings 18
• everyone is constantly overgeneralizing 11
• everyone will constantly point out ways in which things are incomplete 4
• everything 2
• Everything is a Remix 10
• everything makes sense 39
• Everything Studies 1
• everything you're experiencing is your entire being's best attempt to make sense of everything right now 2
• evolution 3
• evolution becoming aware of itself 2
• evolution includes WAY more than biological evolution 2
• evolution is way more important than most people realize 2
• evolutionary psychology is a bit sus 2
• evolutionary software 1
• example 3
• Example Goals 1
• examples 2
• examples of critical rationalists being framey 1
• examples of tweet remixes 3
• exaptation 8
• excusing 1
• existence 1
• exit 1
• exit trust 2
• Expanded awareness 1
• expanding awareness 7
• expectation 3
• expecting or wanting to be punished 1
• explain what you're doing by talking about similarities & differences with someone else doing something related 1
• explanation 1
• explode mode 1
• exquisite interpersonal calibration 6
• extending trust 1
• extensions and styles I use to limit attention-hijacking from websites 1
• external authority 1
• External Resources 1
• Eyal Shay 2
• eye contact 1
• face 1
• Facets of Unity 1
• fact\fake visual pun 1
• Factorio 1
• fairness 2
• faith 18
• faith - trust gap 1
• fake ethics 1
• fake woo dismissal fallacy -aka- ego is the only intelligence fallacy 7
• fake-knowing 1
• faking it til you make it 1
• family 1
• fand, v 1
• fand, v: give it a go 3
• faulty sensory appreciation 1
• fear 2
• feedback 1
• feedback loops 7
• Feeding Your Demons 1
• fiction related to NNTD or superorganisms 1
• fighting 2
• figure-ground inversion 1
• financial authentic relating 1
• finding parallax between Michael "Valentine" Smith & Malcolm Ocean re fractal cointelligence 1
• finite & infinite games 6
• Finite and Infinite Games 3
• finite game 2
• first-person research 4
• fishbowl 5
• Five Dysfunctions of a Team 1
• flashback 3
• flocking 1
• Florent Crivello 1
• focus on basic okayness 2
• focus on perspectives instead of opinions or beliefs 1
• focus on what you want 4
• Focusing 6
• FOMO 1
• fondling the elephant 1
• foolishness 1
• for your own good 1
• forgiveness 3
• form 1
• fractal 4
• fractal Home 5
• fractal altruism 1
• fractal coalitions 1
• Fractal Pomodoros 2
• fractal selves 4
• fractional pronouns 1
• frame 15
• frame battle 16
• frame cave 1
• frame control 6
• frame dance 4
• frame dialogue 10
• frame equivocation 1
• frame override 5
• frame pressure 2
• frame push 2
• frame shear 3
• frame strength 2
• framing the work 2
• Free to Dance 1
• freedom & constraints go together 1
• friddlydazmilagoolia 3
• from a narcissistic perspective, everyone else looks like a narcissist 2
• fuck around and find out 1
• Fuck the Academy
• fuel the upward spiral 4
• full name 1
• full-fractal buy-in 20
• full-stack sidekick 3
• fully general communication protocol 1
• fully meta-rational workplace 1
• fun criterion 1
• functional hierarchy 1
• functionless symptom 1
• fundamental freedom 2
• fundamental tensions 1
• funk 1
• Futurati 1
• future of work 3
• Gabor Maté 1
• Gall's Law 2
• Game A 12
• Game B 30
• game theory 13
• game with unclear rules 2
• game: my mind calls me the body -aka- taking mind as object 6
• games & learning 1
• gap junction 1
• Gary Klein 1
• gaslighting 4
• Gathering in SF in parallel to ThinkBetter & Emerge & CP Belgium 1
• GCI stories 1
• gender 1
• general app design principles 1
• general semantics 3
• Geneva Chat 1
• genie 1
• genius 1
• Geoffrey West 13
• geopolitics 2
• George Woodliff-Stanley 5
• georgism 1
• Getting back on the wagon with Intend
• getting in sync 2
• getting inside someone's OODA loop 1
• gifs 2
• give them their wish in fantasy 1
• GlassBeadGameTwitter 1
• global wayfinding 1
• gnosis 6
• Gnots 1
• goal 2
• Goal = recognizable desired state in the future, that causes you to act differently in the present so as to realize it. 1
• Goal Factoring 1
• Goal-Crafting Intensive 8
• goal-description 7
• goal-end 1
• goal-info 3
• goal-number 7
• goal-publicity 5
• goal-start 1
• goal-title 16
• goal-top-priority 5
• God 5
• going against the grain of life 1
• going meta on the culture war 1
• good faith 1
• goodhart's law 3
• goodharting 5
• google doc 1
• governance 6
• GPT 1
• grace 2
• Graham Duncan 1
• grant 1
• gratitude 1
• greet your thoughts with kindness 2
• grief 1
• groundhog day 1
• GroupSelf 2
• Growth Edge Network 1
• GTD but good tho 1
• Guess Culture 1
• guided meditations by me 2
• guru dynamics 4
• habits 1
• Haier 3
• handledness 4
• handshakes 2
• Hanzi Freinacht 4
• happiness is worth it 4
• hard-to-vary explanation 1
• having kids 3
• he said she said 3
• healing from trauma is about learning that it's okay to feel what you feel and know what you know 2
• healthy ecosystems 1
• healthy relationships 1
• hear yourself first 1
• heaven 1
• heavy-tail distributions 1
• hell realm 2
• hell's prayer 1
• Hemisphere Dharma 6
• Hemisphere Library 1
• Hemispheres & Masculinity-Femininity 1
• Hemispheres & Self-improvement 2
• Hemispheres Linkpost 2
• Henry Wai 1
• Hephaistos Fnord 2
• here we go again 2
• heterogeneous coherence 2
• heurisms 2
• heuristics for finding misplaced items 1
• hi. how are you? I'm fine, how are you? 1
• hierarchy 1
• Higher Dimensional Thinking, the End of Paradox, and a More Adequate Understanding of Reality 6
• historical example of NNTD-related stuff 1
• history of work 1
• Hoji Alexandra 2
• Hold Me Tight 1
• Holon 1
• Holy Idea 1
• Holy Perfection 2
• Holy Work 1
• Home 24
• homecoming 1
• honesty 3
• honing & jamming 2
• Hormeze 2
• horns 1
• hostile telepath 1
• hosting dinner parties 2
• hosting events 1
• how can I become an invalid target for whatever they’re projecting on me? 6
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• tactile-talk 1
• Tad Hargrave 1
• Tada Hozumi 1
• Taking Children Seriously 2
• taking efficiency up a level of abstraction
• taking for granted 1
• Taking things personally sometimes does make them be about you 1
• talkaboutability 3
• talkaboutability is only enough when it's satisfying to everyone 3
• talking points 2
• tanha, alexander technique
• task-positive network 1
• Tasshin Fogleman 8
• tautology 3
• taxonomy of major feedback-blocking meta-blindspots 1
• TCP - IP analogy 1
• teacher-student relations 1
• team management 1
• Team of Teams 1
• Tech for removing friction for writing 2
• techniques for handling a lot of intense feedback 1
• technology 1
• teleology 1
• terminology, jargon, definitions 1
• testimonials 4
• textbook list 1
• thanking 1
• the "better horse" fallacy 1
• the "speak falsely" present first-person singular conjugation 1
• the liberalism paradox, aka tolerating the intolerant or welcoming the unwelcoming 2
• The Beginning of Infinity 1
• The Challenge of Partial Control 6
• The Circles Maps 4
• the container beyond the container 2
• The Creature that Eats Moloch 2
• the dao of development 1
• the Eightfold Path 2
• The Engelbart Hypothesis 3
• the evolutionary phase shift that we're in, that might be comparable to the emergence of multicellular life 1
• The Father Of Mobile Computing Is Not Impressed 1
• The Fifth Discipline 3
• the future is gonna be weird
• The future-present paradox
• the group is the fundamental unit of human behavior 1
• The Guru Papers 1
• The Heart of Enterprise 1
• the importance of being able to say that you don't yet know how to solve a problem 4
• the importance of countering the chronic invalidation of H2 2
• The Lightfoot Podcast 1
• The Listening Society 2
• the many meanings of NNTD 2
• The Master and his Emissary 8
• the middle 1
• The Mind Illuminated 1
• the need for a subsingular pronoun 1
• the need for better "we" pronouns 2
• The Network State 1
• the next buddha may be a sangha 2
• the obstacle is the way 11
• The Passionate Marriage 1
• The Passionate Mind Revisited 2
• the perpetual conversation 1
• the place that chooses the principles 1
• the point of friendliness is not to avoid conflict, but to actually create contexts that allow for deeper, more intense, prolonged conflict over the long term 5
• the power and pitfalls of punishing peoples' patterns 1
• The Power of Habit 1
• The Secret of Our Success 5
• The Stoa 6
• The Surrender Experiment 1
• The Systems Thinker 1
• The Thing 1
• The Throughput of Learning 1
• The Time Being 1
• the union of wisdom instead of the union of naivety 2
• The Utopia of Rules 1
• the validity of projection - it's not about you but it's not not about you 4
• the visionary hyperobject problem 1
• the vivid reality of sense-making and what it means for something someone says to "make sense" 8
• The Way of Effortless Mindfulness 2
• the ways in which coercion is a necessary solution (at least at present) 1
• The Wisdom of Distrust 1
• theological virtues 1
• theology 1
• theory of mind 6
• therapy 1
• there is but one duality - between everything and nothing 1
• There is no away
• there is no non-relationship
• there is no trad anymore 2
• there's no such thing as fixing yourself 1
• there's no way to communicate correctly or incorrectly - there's just what works in context and what doesn't work 12
• There's one world and it's round 1
• there's something you're doing that I'm inclined to call X 1
• these parts of twitter 2
• Thich Nhat Hanh 5
• thingness isn't conceptuality 2
• things I'm particularly on about this month 1
• things I've built 1
• things like energy healing probably work somewhat but their explanations for how they work are mostly garbage 1
• things that ping NNTD 1
• things we need better language for 2
• ThingsIWantToExist 5
• thinking 1
• Thinking in Systems 1
• thinking that rejects other thinking 20
• this guy gets it 1
• thought experiments 2
• Thoughts on conceptual abstraction transitions 1
• thoughts on improving the functional design of malcolmocean.com site 3
• thoughts on learning & finite & infinite games 4
• thoughts on working with anger or whatever 1
• thread 7
• thread of Intend enthusiasm 1
• Thread on feeling safe in the face of doom 1
• Thread on GCI homepage redesign
• Thread re Finite & Infinite Games
• threadapalooza 3
• threads that start with a standalone banger trailhead tweet 1
• thwink 1
• Tiago Forte 2
• Tim Ferriss 2
• Timothy Telleen-Lawton 2
• tinder for tabs 6
• tips for using Intend with another list 1
• to-build 1
• to-read 22
• to-watch 1
• toask 1
• TODO 282
• todo 9
• Tom Atlee 1
• Too what for what? 2
• tool metaphor for trust 1
• Tools for Thought 1
• Topics 1
• topics to do videos on 4
• TopicTimes 1
• Topos Institute 1
• tosay 3
• tough love 1
• towardsness 6
• Trace Brady 1
• tracing how Mark Lippmann influenced NNTD 2
• traction and cumulativity is so hard in “thought space”, “people space” 1
• tragedy of the commons 2
• transcend & include 2
• Transcript of Otter->Roam demo 1
• trappable 1
• trappable = non-ergodic 1
• travel metaphor 1
• travel tips 1
• Trent Fowler 1
• Trinley Goldenberg 6
• triple-loop learning 2
• trust 24
• trust and faith 2
• trust as an unquestioning attitude 8
• trust as truth in first-person 4
• trust can't be imperative 3
• trust dance moves 3
• trust in media 2
• trust in terms of life 2
• trust is 100% subjective and 0% arbitrary 2
• trust is about zone-of-proximal-development aka ZPD 1
• trust is only between things with skin in the game 1
• trust or trustworthiness is not universal or transitive 3
• trust repair 5
• trust-building frameworks must be symmetric 6
• trust-building frameworks must simultaneously be trustworthiness-learning frameworks 4
• trust-building is fundamentally the same process on all scales (internal, between individuals, between groups) 4
• trust-dancing 24
• trusting the other person over yourself 1
• trusting your own sensemaker 1
• trustworthy 1
• try it you might like it — someone learning quickly 1
• try on other people's faces 1
• trying on peoples' faces/gaits/stances while walking down the street 1
• trying to call out instances of blame won't work 1
• trying to write canonical posts is confused or at least not how I want to do things 1
• tuning 4
• tweet 2
• Tweet drafts 1
• tweets to respond to or riff on 1
• tweetstorm 9
• Twitter 15
• twitter 2
• twitter as a commons 2
• twitter as global consciousness 2
• twitter edit feature 1
• twitter egalitarian 1
• Twitter Game 2
• twitter hacks 1
• twitter tools or addons 1
• twitter wins 7
• TwitterDayOff 6
• two directions of abstraction 2
• two modes of intersubjectivity 4
• two people adjusting behavior based on each other leading to multiple stable attractors 3
• Tyler Alterman 1
• Tyler Cowen 1
• type 14
• type error 1
• types of distractions 1
• types of meditation 1
• tyranny of structureless 1
• UBI 4
• Ultraspeaking 1
• unblending 1
• Unconditional Parenting 1
• unconsciousness 5
• underrated tweets 4
• unfinished 8
• unilateral 1
• unit dev 1
• Unlocking the Emotional Brain 12
• unnamed motivation meditation 1
• untangle 4
• unwinding original spin 3
• updated 6
• Upstart 8
• upward spiral 6
• urgency 1
• url 4
• vacuum 1
• Vajrayana 3
• valley of mismatch 2
• values 1
• Vancouver Island ProtoB 2
• Venkatesh Rao 1
• veto 1
• vgr
• viability 1
• VibraVest 1
• video 40
• video game 1
• VIEW 1
• Vinay Gupta 2
• virtual bargaining 4
• virtual spatial spaces 1
• virtue 1
• visakanv 18
• vital Roam hotkeys 1
• Vital Factors
• Vitamin C 1
• voice 1
• voice trust 2
• VR/AR
• vTaiwan 2
• W. D. Deming 1
• wage class 3
• We
• we don't have time to rush 4
• we each hold some core pieces of what will work and what won't work 1
• we-fi 4
• we-space 2
• web3 1
• WebApp idea: 2×2 playground
• weird 3-part pun venn 2
• Weird Playlists 1
• weird thing that isn't positive nor negative feedback 2
• weirdness, neurodivergence, normiedom, empathy gap 3
• welfare class 2
• well-named 1
• Werewolf variant ideas 3
• Werner Erhard 2
• wf2roam 1
• what are necessary elements of the meta-protocol? 2
• What are Opposites? 3
• What are plans for? 1
• What are the components or dimensions required for collaborative culture? 13
• What are the different ways group confluence can be limited? 1
• what are you organizing your life around? 1
• What do we do in the meantime if we can't dialogue? 2
• what does it mean to allow an utterance to participate in the conversation 2
• what does it mean to understand each other 2
• What happened to the Synergetics Society? 2
• What if it were good tho? 5
• what if less/slower virality 1
• what is betrayal in the context of positive-sum game theory? 5
• what is coercion? 13
• What is power-over, really? 1
• What is Blame? 11
• what is culture? 3
• What is Prose? 4
• what is the right scale for an organ, in a multi-human system? 1
• what might a healthy community look like? 8
• what now, given everything? 1
• what problem are you solving? 1
• What would a fluid or meta-systematic team coordination app look like? 3
• What's the deal doc 1
• What's the relationship between default mode network & task-positive network and brain hemispheres? 1
• What's the role of Self in partswork? 1
• what's your intention stack at this moment? 1
• What's your deal? 1
• when a part speaks on behalf of the whole in a way that's confused - misleading "I" 1
• When is trust transitive? 2
• when others trust you and you don't trust yourself 1
• where does the do go? 1
• who bears the cost of whose learning? 1
• who gets to decide who gets to decide? 3
• whole-assed half-assing 1
• wholeness 1
• whose job is this? 3
• Why 3
• why am I still surprised when it feels so good after I exercise? 1
• why does silicon valley work? 1
• why NNTD matters 2
• why now? 1
• Why Prioritize?
• why trust matters 1
• why write? 1
• wifi metaphor 1
• willpower 1
• wisdom 3
• with any misunderstanding, it's possible (& usually worthwhile) to come to a place of profoundly mutually satisfying shared understanding 5
• wonder 1
• Woolley's collective intelligence 3
• words I have coined 1
• words I take a second look at 1
• Work With Me 4
• Work with the garage door up 2
• workflow 3
• WorkFlowy 2
• Working with conflict 2
• workona 1
• workspace mgmt plugins 1
• wormhole - portal 1
• Write 100 summaries/proposals 1
• write for friends etc, not a nebulous everyone 1
• writing it live challenge 1
• writing process 6
• wtf is stream entry 1
• wtf is the deal with the synergic mode? 3
• Yatharth 5
• year 1
• yes, and 1
• you always do trust what you can trust 1
• you are relevant. you will be integrated 1
• you can do stuff 1
• You can do things you don't "know how" to do 2
• you can just do things 1
• you can just tell people things and change their lives 1
• you can try to reassure someone but you can't reassure them 1
• you can't add or subtract something from a person 2
• you can't fall out of the universe 1
• you can't rely on a conversation with someone else to make sense of the fact that you're having trouble making sense of things with them 1
• you can't trust any more than you can trust 5
• you don't have to 1
• you don't need permission to exist 1
• You Might Have Earned It, But Don’t Forget That Your Wealth Came from Society 1
• you're a person you can do nice things for 1
• You're doing more than what you think you're doing
• your experiences are real 3
• your first problem is you don't have a blog 2
• Your principles are shaped from your experience, which contains assumptions you aren't aware of 2
• youtube 5
• zen 1
• zettelkasten 3
• Zev Benjamin 1
• Zoe Curzi 2
• Zvi Mowshowitz 2