make shared or different frames explicit

created 2021-04-08 · edited 2021-04-08 · open in Roam

No content on this page itself — see linked references below.

6 linked references

Keywords - brain hemispheres coercion what is coercion? productivity scapegoat Everyone is basically living in a dream mashup of their current external situation & old emotional meanings everyone is constantly overgeneralizing Conversation As Medium make shared or different frames explicit shared train of thought do people naturally self-regulate how deep they're willing to go? commitment/choice is a confused way to relate to stances/mindsets dream mashups Unlocking the Emotional Brain IFS partswork what might a healthy community look like? doing community well The Master and his Emissary intro left hemisphere right hemisphere Behavior: The Control of Perception Perceptual Control Theory Hemisphere Dharma Change doesn't just happen Hemispheres & Self-improvement left hemispheres aren't made for interfacing with other people Perceptual Control Theory control systems

5:51 - 13:31 - What is at the core of good conversation? Conversation As Medium make shared or different frames explicit shared train of thought

18:40 - 28:58 blindspot blindspot feedback is hard (but possible!) it's only possible to be rational within a frame make shared or different frames explicit Change doesn't just happen

Keywords - brain hemispheres McGilchrist's brain hemisphere model Perceptual Control Theory barn-raising Internal Family Systems blindspot blindspot feedback is hard (but possible!) it's only possible to be rational within a frame make shared or different frames explicit Change doesn't just happen Intend productivity Intend Philosophy & Paradigm how to think about goals PCT internal conflict much of human collaboration scales sublinearly but it's possible to scale superlinearly What are the components or dimensions required for collaborative culture? Geoffrey West Questions for teasing apart the concept of commitment commitment/choice is a confused way to relate to stances/mindsets Everyone is basically living in a dream mashup of their current external situation & old emotional meanings everyone is constantly overgeneralizing acceptance isn't the same as acceptance safety self-trust right hemisphere left hemisphere self-energizing

make shared or different frames explicit - frame battle
- "of course" and "as far as I can tell"
- I'd just been talking for a whole day with a friend about a thing that we both had a ton of shared understanding about, and then later I went to send a message about the same topic, into a DM group, and I almost said "ofc XYZ" and then I was like "whoaaaa wait I do not know this group has anything like an ofc around this" and so I switched it to "afaict XYZ"
- if I'd gone and tried to say "ofc XYZ" with a group for whom that wasn't also obvious then that would have invited a whole frame battle
- but also if I were to only say "afaict XYZ" with someone that I supposedly have common knowledge with about the thing, that would also be sus