Tasshin Fogleman
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September 22nd, 2025
- people writing about NNTD Tasshin Fogleman - "i don't need to adopt other people's models of me wholesale, those are for them, my model of me is for me"
Podcast summaries
- Keywords: Eric Chisholm Sarah McManus Conversation As Medium blindspot feedback is hard (but possible!) ottergroup fishbowl frame dialogue frame blindspot Circling Liminal Space Agency NNTD upward spiral fuel the upward spiral nobody is to blame What is Blame? building trust out of distrust trust-dancing is an element of all human interactions Game A Game B Circling NVC NNTD has let me see how certain attempts towards trust-building will fail to build non-naive trust obvious
- Outline of ideas discussed. (I'm M, Tasshin is T):
- 0:36 - 37:24 - Recording conversations - The social and therapeutic benefits, and the logistics of the process. Conversation As Medium blindspot feedback is hard (but possible!) ottergroup fishbowl frame dialogue frame
- 37:25 - 47:03 - Meeting Eric - connecting rationalism and 'trust dancing'. rationality Eric Chisholm Circling
- 47:07 - 1:08:42 - Interesting moments from my personal history. Earliest introduction to meditation. Getting started with LSA, rationality and Trust dancing. Mark Lippmann's meditation protocol Liminal Space Agency The Stoa Game B
- 1:08:46 - 1:23:39 - A few principles I learned from my time with LSA upward spiral fuel the upward spiral What is Blame? nobody is to blame building trust out of distrust trust-dancing is an element of all human interactions
- 1:23:45 - 1:33:48 - Is NNTD and upgraded version of Upstart's ideals and methods? Liminal Space Agency trust-dancing Game A Game B CirclingNVC
- 1:33:50 - 1:37:33 - Cultural gaps between the various methods for thinking about and navigating trust dancing. Circling NVC NNTD
- 1:37:35 - 1:56:43 - An example of how to use NNTD to resolve conflict between members of different friend groups NNTD building trust out of distrust NNTD has let me see how certain attempts towards trust-building will fail to build non-naive trust
- 2:10:17 - 2:19:12 - Experiments or practices to help you be more attuned to social dynamics, underlying trust needs and trust dancing opportunities/moments in general trust-dancing Learning how to trust yourself when all men doubt you, but make allowance for their doubting too self-trust
December 2nd, 2021
- oooh this is great (via Tasshin Fogleman)
July 19th, 2021
- this post by Tasshin Fogleman has some suggestions for finding win-wins internally or between people
- > Ask one or more of the following questions as generative prompts:
- > Is there a way to meet need 1, without doing X?
- > Is there a way to meet need 2, while doing X?
June 27th, 2021
- tweet something about 3rd person perspectives @ 1h25:40ish
- Check out this conversation between two friends of mine, introducing a project that @LordChisholm and I are
- 1/ "Now, you're not [Malcolm] obviously, but you do work closely with him, and you're his friend and so on, and that relationship is sort of the genesis for this project you're embarking on that finds us having this conversation.
- 2/ (quote continued) "If you had to guess / go out on a limb and *try* and speak for him, what would you guess he sees in you that he wants to bring out through this project?"
Malcolm podcast appearances
- September 11th, 2021 on Reach Truth Podcast with Tasshin Fogleman
- video: