Malcolm Ocean's roamblog

knot-listening

created 2021-11-14 · edited 2021-11-14 · open in Roam

see it's hard to listen when you don't trust you'll be able to stay in touch with your own perspective if/when you take in someone else's
- people often feel like someone is asking them to surrender their own perspective, but usually the person just wants theirs received, and the other person doesn't know how to do that while holding their own
x.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1574244919354437632

6 linked references

April 16th, 2026

knot-listening - made an image for this. not particularly happy about it

April 16th, 2024

my threads on twitter - trust repair, knot-listening/3 steps to empowered dialogue in the context of sex videos.
- twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1780309400529535231

December 2nd, 2022

knot-listening
- twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1598600404551749632

September 25th, 2022

two new my threads on twitter

knot-listening
- twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1574245008466710528

January 19th, 2022

things I feel like writing about

knot-listening or something

November 14th, 2021

knot-listening knot-doing
- "I think we're knot-listening"
- "What are you knot-doing?"
  - twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1458521000056745986