Malcolm Ocean's roamblog

it's important to be able to tell when near-misses are luck vs something controlling, and if so what

created 2020-06-27 · edited 2020-06-27 · open in Roam
  • a common kind of feedback that people find themselves wanting to give (that sometimes doesn't land because of fear & blame) has the structure "Nothing exploded, but only because of a coincidence that nobody was ensuring would happen, so as far as our protocols are concerned, this happening was as bad as an explosion."
    • and someone might also be saying:
      • "you seem to think you can rely on me in a situation like this, but you actually can't"
        • so "if you think that just because you didn't take point this time and things went fine, that you not taking point on this is workable, it's not."