Dimensions of Trust-Dancing
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June 30th, 2021
- maybe related to Dimensions of Trust-Dancing or Home, this shortlist of things people need - also metta
- May you experience enough safety in life
That your body can viscerally relax - May you be surrounded by people
Who support you to express yourself - May you experience being held
In a compassionate and non-judgemental space - May you fall in love with someone
Who sees the real you - May you feel enough security
To be able to share yourself and your resources freely and openly - May you find enough meaning and purpose in life
To make it feel like it's worth it - May you have the courage
To stand up for these things
For yourself and others
April 18th, 2021
- Gottmann's Eight Dates book
- safety opening up & being vulnerable
- a few modes of that
- feeling totally safe
- still feeling uncomfortable but not actually predicting harm
- this thread may have stuff relevant to NNTD & Dimensions of Trust-Dancing
April 9th, 2021
- (these all mutually support each other but they can be different levels of depth)
- the 5 components of secure attachment
- safety
- attunement
- comfort / physical affection
- unconditional delight in your existence
- unconditional support for your explorations
- "trusting that the other person will listen to you for as long as you need, in whatever way you & they both need, in order for you to feel heard about something that matters to you to be heard about"
- also other things, some of which are less relevant to a parent-child relationship
- falling in love (has a specific flavor)
- sexual seduction
- sense of shared purpose
- "let's found a company together"
- sense of cultural commonalities/touchstones