at each moment in an interaction, there's an opportunity to turn towards

August 27th, 2022

• upward spiral friddlydazmilagoolia at each moment in an interaction, there's an opportunity to turn towards
  • examples
    • flowy
      • "I didn't need to know that btw"
        • ↳ "ah true, you didn't"
        • ↳ "no actually you did, because I needed to make sure xyz"
      • "You could have just done that, without asking"
        • ↳ "cool, I wasn't actually sure but I know that now"
        • ↳ "oh, huh, I notice I don't actually trust that still, quite…"
    • …instead of janky and defensive and tangled:
      • "I didn't need to know that btw"
        • ↳ "well I thought—"
      • "You could have just done that, without asking"
        • ↳ "yeah but I thought you'd be mad if you didn't know"