fighting
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March 4th, 2025
- also last night convo w R had some good stuff on what makes something fighting and not just a difference or even a conflict
- if you have a difference but it causes no problems then it's not a conflict
- (some adjacent thing about some differences turning into conflicts if you get too close)
- a conflict is when you have desires that you don't see a way to satisfy simultaneously
- a *fight* is when you can't orient together to a conflict and negotiate about it (perhaps due to frame stuff, or other distrust) which means that you are instead making moves that are more direct/indirect
- analogy of my Korean roommate