you're a person you can do nice things for
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April 19th, 2021
- there's a brilliant video I saw recently of someone making a sandwich for themselves and being so touched at having done it, and like, YES. it's worth being able to access this level of love towards yourself
- and also something like... insofar as this is not enough, which it isn't—masturbation doesn't infinitely substitute for interpersonal sex—it's not enough and that's totally okay and it's totally okay to want actual other people who you can love and who love you and for that to all be workable in all the ways you want it to be workable
- (#nowplaying In Your Hands by Jason Mraz "I love making breakfast for someone instead of me")
- Nick Cammarata has written about this under self-love