May 16th, 2022

edited 2022-05-16 · open in Roam

tweets
- #2tweet incentives aren't what they seem because people don't know what they want / people take for granted that numbers going up are an incentive
  - - incentives aren't what they seem because people don't know what they want / people take for granted that numbers going up are an incentive
- #2tweet part of what makes twitter twitter is there's no comments section
  - - part of what makes twitter twitter is there's no comments section
      - twitter egalitarian
- #2tweet talking with visa: "how to quit smoking - write a book on how to have a good life"
  - - talking with visa: "how to quit smoking - write a book on how to have a good life"
pre-marital marriage counselling
- withours.com/
everything makes sense people actually think the things they think, including you
- twitter.com/CXGonzalez/status/1526322714289610753
thread related to commitments
- twitter.com/s_r_constantin/status/1525868864495489025
and these are compatible
- from LSA Commitments & Assumptions
  - Everyone wants closeness with others and autonomy, and these are compatible
  - Everyone wants to be accepted as they are, and also to change, and these are compatible.
- new ideas
  - Everyone wants to do what brings them joy, and to be of service to the world, and these are compatible.
    - from Tasshin Fogleman's Vow post
  - Everyone wants to feel satisfied with what they've achieved and also to be ambitious, and these are compatible.
    - (not actually sure everyone wants to be ambitious... at least not in some senses of the word)
  - vulnerability & groundedness
    - being moveable/toucheable & being stable
    - 2020-01-10 group recording, @ 1h47
- other sources
  - chapman's confused stance pairs
  - any 2×2 lol
#2tweet the vow that can be spoken is not the true vow
- - the vow that can be spoken is not the true vow