Malcolm Ocean's roamblog

March 9th, 2021

edited 2021-03-09 · open in Roam
  • Gary Klein's book Sources of Power, re decision-making
  • but I don't wanna - a structure of ~procrastination that comes from feeling like "I shouldn't have to do this" and hoping that someone else will come along and deal with it, even if that's entirely unrealistic
  • pep talk thing
    • one kind of support is like, helping someone untangle some internal conflict around a thing
    • another is more like...
    • creating an encouraging, enthusiastic narrative around doing a particular thing
      • someone might never work out on their own, and have a lot of work to do to untangle that, but might literally just always say yes if someone is like "yo, I'm gonna {work out, shoot some hoops, go for a run} wanna join?"
      • or hype man at the gym, who's like "come on, you got this!"
  • oh damn, listening to Jim Rutt Show w the SimPol guy (John Bunzl) and I'm struck by the resonances between SimPol & NNTD
    • the whole thing where there's no regulator at international scales
      • this is also true of interpersonal relationships, which aren't bound by a clear regulator of rules!
      • and there's kind of a correspondence between the H2/powerunder/CPTSD/GameA social dynamics and the Destructive Global Capitalism thing Bunzl talks about
    • multiple dimensions of tradeoffs so there isn't just winners & losers but able to balance it all out & incorporate different dimensions
    • and there's a kind of fractal buy-in thing going on, although it's not actually full-fractal buy-in per se? more like Converting Moloch from Sith to Jedi