November 9th, 2022

edited 2022-11-09 · open in Roam

from a friend (991892689728630784) who just read the C&As
- > From the first one, I wonder if “When faced with a choice between being curious and being defensive, I commit to being curious.” Might be a bit at odds with non-judgment. A potentially useful IFS reframe could be “When feeling defensive, I commit to bringing awareness and compassion to the parts that are defensive until I find genuine curiosity”
- me: yup, see thinking that rejects other thinking & commitment/choice is a confused way to relate to stances/mindsets
disagreements come from different perspectives which come from different experiences & Your principles are shaped from your experience, which contains assumptions you aren't aware of are probably the same #2integrate
Upstart "Commitments & Assumptions"
- relevant to speaking only put of and about own personal experience & understanding... sort of an exploration of that
  - astralcodexten.substack.com/p/can-people-be-honestly-wrong-about?utm_s…

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