Malcolm Ocean's roamblog

June 17th, 2023

edited 2023-06-17 · open in Roam
  • frame control or something
    • > But Feige’s zeal belies a cannier managerial skill. “He’s really good at getting what he wants, but at the same time making everybody feel like they got what they wanted,” the former executive said.
    • > something happens at a different point... there's a different atmosphere... a possibility of understanding things in a different way
    • ...definitely some part of me that is guarded towards Jean-as-teacher, being on this stoa call with Liminal Space Agency folks
    • which is interesting in the sense that nobody is even saying that!
    • but it is obviously super relevant
    • I really like the written piece: somebody has to point something out
      • "give transmission"
    • but doesn't have to be an ongoing teacher
    • although there's a puzzle of like... who guides you into which meditation practices etc?
      • that's another big challenge for me ofc
    • > 3 elements of eG
      • receptive presence
      • ethical maturity
      • personal autonomy
    • I'm getting the sense that Jared is a founder/designer of the eG container, but maybe started in a student role along some other dimension? while codesigning it with Charlie? not sure this is accurate but seemed worth asking about? because it implies neither a single-hierarchy model nor an egalitarian model
    • mmm this is sort of a general puzzle/challenge with scaling mysticism in general while keeping it alive and not having it turn into a kind of "dead" religion
    • David Chapman > esoteric & exoteric scaling
      • > exoteric pretty easy:
        • > courses, guided processes
        • > can be systematized & made available to vastly more people should vastly more people want them
      • esoteric...
        • (part of the puzzle as I see it is something like "who is qualified to give transmission?" and "who is qualified to say who is qualified to give transmission?" ...and of course from a dzogchen perspective this is also sort of a non-issue because *every* experience is a transmission if you know how to look 😆)
    • Andrew Connor > witnessing the learning process is very helpful
    • Charlie Awbery > metasystematicity
      • traditionally, being trained in a very particular system (eg chemistry)
      • but very few contexts where individuals are being facilitated in their own metasystematic learning
    • transmission
      • Charlie Awbery > I relate the word transmission to communities of practices
        • the way embodied learning is transmitted from one generation to another generation
        • something that occurs through relationship
      • wang - magical power in ritual from lama... powers through the unenlightened mode of the student
    • drawing primarily on yogic/village practice
      • constantly integrated
      • going to cave for a couple hours
      • but constant movement between personal practice and creating these little containers/retreat experiences, moving back into ordinary life
    • David Chapman > vajrayana > spiritual & other stuff not separate
      • > sitting in a cave is actually a second-place substitute for doing things in daily life
    • "chöd" is pronounced much like "should" (but voiced first consonant)
    • vividness in every relationship
      • how to see every conversation as an opportunity for transmission?
      • upcoming kaleidoscope course
      • connection with "learning relationships"
      • M > practice of seeing everyone as buddhas
      • C > practice of "pure view" or "pure vision"
        • aspects of risks
        • M > risks whether you're orienting with a "learning relationship" energy to a skilled practitioner vs a random guy at a bus stop
        • C > our approach is bounded contexts for doing that
          • just for the sangha
          • or just for the duration of the retreat
          • we're going to enter in a particular way of being in relation to each other
          • that is characterized by this utter regard & assumption that the other is being the best possible self and that they are inherently fundamentally okay
          • everyone is already always totally alright
          • but lots of other views, eg Christian view of sinners
          • timeboxed sandboxed retreats/gatherings
          • "assuming that we're not out to get each other"
          • (huh, I feel like I could give a talk to eG on this from an NNTD perspective)
            • my view is more selfish haha
            • everybody's behavior, including neuroses, is an opportunity for me to integrate my own wisdom
            • my own distrust of them is my own wisdom
        • J > can be a specific deliberate practice of seeing people a particular way
          • developing an appreciation for a way of being
          • "natural" experience
          • you could be not trying at all to see people as perfect in some strange way
          • but as a result of your practice, you find yourself doing that
          • so can be both formal/deliberate or spontaneous/natural
    • august 6-10 — eG having a community retreat (those dates open to public)
      • first big retreat
      • KD & NR would say at beginning of their retreats
        • one > the only rule is kindness
        • other > the only rule is awareness
      • some principles of eG
        • curious skepticism
        • skillful disagreements
        • expressing doubt
      • (these remind me of recent RealTalk exploration)
    • zen phrase
      • all beings ceaselessly preach the dharma
      • M > khordu khandro mangpo khor
      • both terrifying and benevolent+desirable, and can teach you in both forms
    • J to Charlie > you weren't acting like a teacher, you weren't displaying as a teacher
      • I like the word "displaying" here
    • C > if you swap out "teaching" for "communicating"...
      • ...everything is communicating, all the time!
      • in different states of awareness, more communication becomes available
    • C > we talk about personal autonomy, and people think they have it
      • but if you look, you can see how ALL THE TIME people are looking for permission etc
        • M > "I hereby give you permission to not ask for my permission"
      • "oh - I'm scared"
      • or default contentiousness - can't get off the ground
      • M >