August 27th, 2022
- upward spiral friddlydazmilagoolia at each moment in an interaction, there's an opportunity to turn towards
- examples
- flowy
- "I didn't need to know that btw"
- ↳ "ah true, you didn't"
- ↳ "no actually you did, because I needed to make sure xyz"
- "You could have just done that, without asking"
- ↳ "cool, I wasn't actually sure but I know that now"
- ↳ "oh, huh, I notice I don't actually trust that still, quite…"
- …instead of janky and defensive and tangled:
- "I didn't need to know that btw"
- ↳ "well I thought—"
- "You could have just done that, without asking"
- ↳ "yeah but I thought you'd be mad if you didn't know"