December 4th, 2023

edited 2023-12-04 · open in Roam

these people have an interesting mode of trust repair after a betrayal (says my friend Ethan Reeder)... that basically the person who kept a secret needs to honestly answer any and all questions asked by the person who was betrayed, and that that person needs to ask all questions that arise and seem to matter.
- thepactinstitute.com/what-is-pact
- the naive interpretation is simply that this rebuilds trust because the asker now trusts the secret-keeper to be open and honest, etc
- but my sense is that insofar as we model trust as truth in first-person, this process literally rebuilds the shared sense of reality between the two of them
meme image etc #idea weird 3-part pun venn - NPS
- but for now it'd just be a flex handshake 💪
- meditators marketers
  - 🤝
    - increase NPS
    - grow NPS
    - improve NPS
- NPS =
  - net promoter score
  - noticings per second
  - (other NPSes)
    - National Park Service
weird 3-part pun venn - integrate by parts
- emotional work math
- therapists mathematicians
  - 🤝
    - integrate by parts