September 13th, 2021

edited 2021-09-13 · open in Roam

open question: how does one deal with needing someone else to change in order for the relationship to work?
- Shadow Work and Shadow Integration with Chris Orozco on Sacred Leaders podcast
  - a friend wrote, reflecting on this podcast
    - > I feel like there might be ~3 friendships where I want to say, hey, no hate, no foul, but I can't do this so long as you don't change X. Unless u do X: so long.
related to losslessness, kinda-sorta counter-evidence
- universal-sci.com/headlines/2018/9/20/the-real-you-is-a-myth-we-consta…
frame push
- twitter.com/everytstudies/status/1435299381272588290
- twitter.com/Malcolm_Ocean/status/1437326189106847744
this "2 collective nouns" for geese thing reminds me a bit of the need for better "we" pronouns
- twitter.com/vgr/status/1436763675377876994
I have a loose guess that this Slate Star Codex article might be
- Conversation Deliberately Skirts the Border of Incomprehensibility
> (in fact, I think the paper might be claiming that “attention” just means a localized narrowing of confidence intervals in a certain direction; for example, if I pay attention to the feeling of my shirt on my skin, then I can feel every little fold and micromovement. This seems like an important point with a lot of implications.)
- Slate Star Codex article on predictive processing
  - slatestarcodex.com/2016/09/12/its-bayes-all-the-way-up/