July 20th, 2021
- (from call w Riccardo Volpato)
- themes of my tweets that don't have threads yet
- both/and
- every experience real / what does anything imply
- R > "it was a lot of fun"
- M > NNTD is basically attempting to answer the question "given emotional coherence & memory reconsolidation, what does that imply about human relationships and how we would go about forming highly workable relationships for life and love and learning and working?"
- R > do you have a thread on your take of the emotional coherence framework?
- M > no, I mostly refer people to Book summary: Unlocking the Emotional Brain
- but I could write up implications
- R > how do you work towards doing NNTD with people as a goal?
- M > very responsively
- "we're in a situation where it's a matter of consideration what our trust is of each other... how do I navigate that situation skillfully?"
- always doing it, whenever trying to find mutual understanding
- M > "you don't have the data you would need" as a basic NNTD response
- (not necessarily verbally)
- oh hm this tweet is slightly a parody of stuff in the space of Change doesn't just happen and blindspot feedback is hard (but possible!)
- > spiritual relationships:
Person 1 "I am in this state and it is good but also bad, it could change and I have equinimity about that."
Person 2 "I support you being in that state and it is good and also bad, I am open to it changing if it does. I recognize you have equinimity."
- had a tweet about IP inspired by this thread