July 18th, 2020
- bit related to this at ~1h25 in morning recording
- see also Kegan DDO "second job"
- Realizing that the NNTD map may want to have different like... phases.
- eg:
- coming into relationship anew
- emerging new tension
- backlog of distrust
- (Hold Me Tight book has 7 conversations that feel somehow connected to this)