Malcolm Ocean's roamblog

August 22nd, 2025

edited 2025-08-22 · open in Roam
    • this relates to Michael "Valentine" Smith asking me the other day in response to seeing everything here as a learning experience... "why would anybody ever NOT see things that way?" and I commented
      • everything IS a learning experience
      • but sometimes what you're learning is that life will overwhelm you and you can't handle it and can't learn any greater capacity in contact with the overwhelm
        • (or maybe not without shutting down major other systems)
      • there's a thing that happens when kids are playing where someone says "it's not fun anymore"
        • and hopefully the scene responds by easing off